MIC DROP!
Let's get real for a moment...cause I know we all do it!

That moment you walk by the mirror and you do a double-take...SCRATCH THAT... you don't even want to look in the direction of a mirror....better yet; anything with your reflection!
You go out in public, stop to chat with someone you know ("when in reality we were wishing no one seen us at all, cause HELLO...why can't they catch us on our good day, RIGHT!" ) and you constantly feel you need to explain why you look the way you do...I've done it! Many times, in fact, It happened today!

Why do we always feel the need to explain? There are so many objectives out there that we seem to think we have to reach them 24-7. Truthfully, no one can! Well unless we have all the money in the world and don't want to sleep and hire people to come and put us together and do everything we want to accomplish.

But, if you really think about it...at that point it's no longer our accomplishment...it's someone else's.

So as I walked by the mirror, paused, thought for a second UGH..I'm looking rough! I reminded myself, I've been through a lot, I've accomplished a little less than I've wanted to however I should be proud of myself...cause I've fought for so much In this life!

I don't owe an explanation to anyone but myself! It's my story, Gods the only one judging me that matters!

So as you walk by the mirror today, check yourself out, girlfriend!

Cause you're important, you matter, you have fought to become who you are today! I admire how strong you are! Don't think for one second you owe someone an explanation, cause you don't.....love who you are, and no matter what happens know you made an effort & tried!

-Sincerely Her